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A WALK THROUGH ORDINARY
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Nov 11, 20227 min read
i found my favorite mascara the day my dad died
Let me channel my inner Carrie Bradshaw... Who knew mascara could be so eye opening? <--- see what I did there? I have no shame [not even...
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Aug 9, 20225 min read
groundhog day
OK, before you come at me, I have not seen Groundhog Day. I know a very basic premise of a guy reliving the same day over and over again...
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Jul 20, 20225 min read
the defining moment
Have you ever looked at your life through the eyes of a camera? What would play out on screen? How would the script read? What characters...
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May 27, 20225 min read
I ate a grilled cheese and then I cried
May is Mental Health Awareness month. You've probably seen at least one post on social media circulating about it. One site I read...
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May 23, 20228 min read
you're on deck
It is again one of my favorite times of year. It's MAYhem - time for the Women's College World Series [softball]. I played fast pitch...
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May 15, 20228 min read
a week in the life
Writing posts sometimes comes easily. And then other weeks, it does not. It's not that I don't have any ideas. I have a running Rolodex...
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Apr 27, 20225 min read
the heart of it all
Q: How are you? A: Fine. Q: How are you? A: I’m good. You? Q: How you doing? A: Doing well. You? Q: How you doing? A: I’m okay. Q: How...
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Apr 20, 20227 min read
you are a liar
So today I am struggling. Really, I have been for a couple of weeks, off and on. I spoke about the big wave that I was seeing off in the...
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Apr 12, 20227 min read
the pummeling waves of grief: part two
Waves of grief are powerful in ways that can only be felt. Those waves that take down the ship leaving only rubble in its wake. I wrote...
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Apr 5, 20227 min read
the pummeling waves of grief: part one
The sky - a fully saturated blue stretched out as far as I can see. A stray cloud paints the sky with a feather touch - a wispy stroke of...
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Apr 2, 20227 min read
is it well with my soul?
I planned to write on a different topic but I felt inspired to veer off that course for today. I am in the process of searching for a new...
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Mar 28, 20225 min read
the guilt of shoulda, coulda, woulda: part two
Was I right? Did I do everything I could? I could have done more. I should have done more. What if I had done more? - a broken record of...
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Mar 26, 20226 min read
the guilt of shoulda, coulda, woulda: part one
I watched a movie today, Chemical Hearts. I'm not planning on writing a movie review on it, but go ahead and stop reading if you plan to...
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Mar 19, 20227 min read
i cried in therapy today because of you: part two
Every breakup emotion is now intensified. Heartbreak, sadness, loneliness, longing, anger, hurt, betrayal, confusion, self doubt - all of...
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Mar 15, 20227 min read
i cried in therapy today because of you: part one
Can I just say I spent an hour or two typing out a post that continuously said it was saving only to find out it indeed did not save?...
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Mar 13, 20226 min read
walk this way
I didn't sleep well for the first two months after my dad died. I had a hard time falling asleep. The silence was the loudest I have ever...
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Mar 8, 20225 min read
success according to dad
My dad taught me a lot. He was smart but you could never tell him that. He'd always laugh and say "oh no, your mom is the smart one." And...
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Mar 6, 20227 min read
i climbed a mountain and no one noticed
I stumbled upon this particular mountain about five months ago. I couldn't get it off my mind. Everest? Kilimanjaro? Denali? Nope. Nope....
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Mar 2, 20228 min read
wake me up when september ends: part two
This is a follow up to my earlier post - some of the "positive" actions of month one. Even with all the numbness and raw emotions, I did...
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Feb 25, 20227 min read
wake me up when september ends
They say the loneliest walk you'll ever take is the one down the road of grief. So far they are right (whoever they are). This post is...
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